Crumpled Notebook

So, I somehow happened upon this blog post. It was an interesting read, as I just got through reading something that said the average woman kisses 79 men before she gets married. 79! Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not by any means a prude and have on a few occasions been called a kissing slut (or whore, whichever you prefer), but my number is nowhere near that. However, reading this article, made me feel like I was way behind, as my number was more in the ballpark of the number that she said match.com averaged (like I’m gonna tell you my number–I will tell you this. It is NOT 29 as the article averages. I won’t tell you if its higher or lower). Lets just put it this way though. I had my first kiss at 14 I think. I’m 28, so I’ve been kissing for 14 1/2 years I suppose. If you average it out, it’s not really that bad.

Granted, I’ll give that I’ve toned it down the last couple of years, but still, even if I hadn’t of, 79 is a lot of kissing. Anyway, this led me to make a list. Albeit I’ve done this before and always forget someone, but close enough I guess. It’s amazing the people you forget. First names. Last names for sure. Is that bad? Is having a number near the 29 (or heaven forbid, 79) just wrong? I always felt like it was as I know a lot of people who’s number is in the 5 ballpark, some even like 1-2. Anyway, just curious if anyone wanted to share their ballpark number to see if I’m on track or not. I do have to say that I find kissing very fun. It’s one of my most favorite things to do. So the fact that I haven’t had any recently, saddens me, but I guess at this point I’m looking for a bit more than a good kisser, and don’t want to waste time progressing a relationship that I know ultimately won’t work out. Two Month Rule :-)

Keep in mind here, I’m just talking about kissing only. And by kiss, I mean in general, open mouth, real kiss, kind of thing. Oversharing? Probably, but who really cares anyway, huh?

I will go ahead and over share just a little more. Maybe it’s the idea of it, but I don’t think so. My first kiss is still probably the best kisser, or at least in the top 3. Heh, I’m sure he’d love to know that.

Tags: favorite-things, first-kiss, good_kisser, kiss, kissing-slut, kissing-whore, Personal, prude